This weekend I was reminded of how woundings can stop us going forward and relishing in life and the surprise that life can be.
As a beautiful brother put it
“So it's not that they don't want to be open. It is just from experience men hurt then go turtle inside the protective shell as self protection mechanism. So the focus on protection not on healing ... if only it was easy to heal current pain then they would not effect the future openness in any relationship.”
Such true w
Lately and today, have been pondering-“What is the right partner for us?”. I pose I’m looking at what I value there, shit I have a whole list written in my manifestation book of what I value.
I have been questioning myself on all these wants, and wonder at times do we set the the ball park figure to high and make it untainable.
We want our men to rise beside us, in doing this do we look at the ones who don’t fit the bill and say, nah not you. Because he smokes or drinks or a